The first week was pretty lazy.. it was all about decompressing from the vacay, I even took that week from bloggging. I also had to get used to my regular work schedule again.
I still look down at my ring and cant believe it happened for real.. I think back on how it happened and tear up.. All of it still is sinking in.
No date has yet to be chosen, last week I was still letting friends & family know. I am in the process of getting a hold of the contact at our church concerning weddings.. I heard she is helping to plan a funeral so I haven't gotten to talk to her yet. We mainly want to get we need to do from our church first before we choose a date.
I have also been chatting with my married friends on how they paid for and did their weddings. getting tips, & first hand knowledge. I think its good to gather info & tips from ppl who went through this before. I can learn a few things...
A few moments I have felt over whelmed because weddings cost so damn much! ugh! Totally turns me off. Dont be surprised if we just got to the courthouse!
I have decided that I rather spend money on a nice log honeymoon then spend thousands on a a dress and big wedding. The wedding should be about our close friends and family..
I have started looking around for wedding dresses yet nothing has stuck out. If you know of any places then let me know!
There are moments where I sit and reflect on the new role I will be taking... to actually be a wife. I cant get away with certain things that I am used to getting away with. The joy that comes. The fact I have been waiting for this moment for all my life. The joy of others truly sharing in my joy with me is amazing. The prospect of motherhood & the thoughts of wanting to be a stay at home wife. I dont know it the housewife thing could happen, it really depends on many factors. I find myself wanting to immerse myself into the Bible more to learn more about what God expects out of me as a wife. Just things like that.....
Other then that We have been happy and just getting things back to normal. Ill update more when there is new developments.