Okay so this post is solely my personal thoughts, I would love to read some of your thoughts yet just please respect mine, okay?
Lately I ve seen some bloggers that have chosen to blog about some really personal things . Now there is a difference to me about blogging on your personal business. For instance, there is blogging about a personal experience to help others ( Domestic violence, cancer) then there is blogging about personal things
( troubled relationship) . I dont know about you but to me personally I am a private person, I know & understand that not everyone thinks or feels the same way.
Ive come across some blogs that have divulged some pretty personal things. Im like "why?, keep that to yourself" Like one blogger stated they are taking break because the relationship they are in is falling apart. Ive read beauty blogs that said " sorry Im not blogging due to a breakup", then go on to tell the story of a whole relationship that has nothing to do with beauty. I felt like we don't need to know that, even as loyal readers. I then thought about the other party in the relationship & how they felt about a few hundred people knowing thier personal business or should I say the whole world? After all its the WEB. Think about it.
WE dont know who comes & read our blogs, trust me I know. I have been blogging on this blog for about 2 1/2 years , when this blog was another name I wrote about my Domestic Violence storey & then a few days later my ex ( the one who was the abuser) contacted me on Twitter stating he read the post. Nothing bad came of it but I had no idea he read it.
I dont just think as a blogger you should air ALL of your business on your blog. there are some cases where its cool & it can help,but your taking a break from blogging ok cool, we don't NEED to know why, yes we would like to know but its not life or death. If its personal keep it to yourself.
I have a lot of things going on but I dont & wont blog about it. Why? as much as I love you all I value my private life. If I think it will help then I will blog. I have actually un followed some blogs because I felt that they blogged a little TMI. But this is just me. But how much is too much to blog about? What are your limits?
What do you think?